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Email: "My Thoughts"

A grieving young woman seeks comfort and answers in a Sylvia Browne book.

"As you say about people in my situation, I was vulnerable and to be honest, pretty desperate."

- Email author

Background

I recently received an email which I found to be another good example of how tragic circumstances can make a person a prime target for Sylvia Browne's nonsense.

The Email

Here, with the author's permission, is that email:

Subject: My thoughts
From: [name] <[email address]>
Date: Fri, Aug 17, 2007 2:31 am
To: [email address]

I regretfully say that I can not contribute anything particularly useful to your amending website collection. After spending the last two days reading every article within its links, I felt the need to atleast contribute my opinion.

I first heard of Sylvia Browne a few monthes ago from the partner of a very successful photographer I shoot with (I'm a model). I had expressed depression about losing my father in May of 2005, and she referred me to the book "Life on the Other Side." She raved about it, saying it helped her immensely when she lost her own father. I jotted down the title and slipped it into my wallet, kind of filing it somewhere in the back of my memory bank. When my mother passed away in June (2007), I was absolutely devestated. My world fell apart, and all I could think about was contacting her and my father. Knowing that there was life after this, and that they were happy somewhere together and alright.

Within a couple weeks, I remembered her advice, pulled out that little piece of paper, and went to the library on a mission of finding the book. Luckily, there was a copy, but I would have to wait for it, as it was at another location and they would have to request it, but would call me when it was in. A week or so later, I get the call I was eagerly anticipating. I was starved for answer, spirituality, faith in anything at this point. I started reading it and eating it up. In reality, it was helping quite a bit in my state. As you say about people in my situation, I was vulnerable and to be honest, pretty desperate.

Before even finishing the first 50 pages, I wanted to meet this woman with every ounce of me, and I didn't care if I spent my rent money and became homeless to do it. Because contacting my parents, and having my closure and comfort was more important. I was consumed by it. So I went to her website, and got the information. I called to try and make an appointment, and they told me the wait. I don't remember exactly, but it was an outrageously long time away. I sighed and agreed. They took my information.

Ironically, I was laying on my couch the other day, utterly depressed. I only get about three channels right now, and I NEVER watch the television because of it. But for some reason, I turned it on. It was at commercial, but informed me that Montel was next, and it was an episode featuring her. I got excited, and stayed tuned in.

Halfway through this episode, my viewpoints on her changed drastically. I imagined her having a soothing, compassionate voice, but was faced with an apathetic woman who sounded as if she had smoked four packs a day for the past fifty years. My mouth was literally agape. I literally watched her pull answers out of her ass to people that probably sincerely would take her word for gold.

It was then I decided to research her a bit more, and came across your website. I don't think I need to dig further. It more then convinced me what a fraud, and an all around horrible person this woman really is.

Fortunately, the only money I have, and will lose to her was the $23 late fee for my library book because blonde little me forgot to return it.

So all in all, thank you. For making me realize that it's not going to take some scary hag that should in all reality be drug out in the street and shot to help me contact my parents. The only person that can, and will do that is me. I have to find it inside myself, not from Sylvia, John Edwards (whom I always thought was a quack), Miss Cleo (who wears enough makeup to resink the Titanic) or any other heartless soul.

I do, for the record, believe in psychics, and believe powers like this really exist. I've experienced it myself to an extent. But I also believe the people who truly possess them would not be exploiting them for ludicrous amounts of money.

Manda,
www.myspace.com/pinksmoochies

My Opinion: "Sylvia Browne and Comforting Lies"

(Note: I generally try to stick to facts in my articles, and when I express an opinion, I try to clearly label it as such. This section of the article falls squarely into the opinion category.)

I'd like to address the young woman's statement where she said that Browne's book "...was helping quite a bit in my state."

I receive emails from time to time from people who say that Browne has helped many people. Sometimes, it is even in the form of "So what if she's a fraud, her books have comforted millions of people!"

I have no doubt that there are many people who have read Browne's books and have attained some degree of comfort from them. But as has been shown many times on this site, the validity of much of what is in those books is highly questionable.

In my opinion, her books are, for the most part, fiction being passed off as fact. There is another word for that: lies.

I can think of circumstances in which it is okay to tell a "comforting lie." For instance, if someone asks if you think that their deceased loved one suffered much at the end, and you know for a fact that the loved one suffered greatly, telling the person "no, your loved one went very quickly and didn't suffer at all" is, to me, an acceptable "comforting lie."

So then, are Browne's lies acceptable because some people find comfort in them?

I say no.

First, in the above example, there was no benefit to the person knowing the truth: that their loved one had suffered. But in the case of Browne's lies, they can keep the person being lied to from finding out truths which may be beneficial to them. Her "medical diagnoses" are a clear example of this.

Second, not everything which comforts a person is necessarily good for them. In fact, many find comfort in things (smoking, overeating, etc.) which are extremely harmful.

Third, Browne isn't telling these lies simply to comfort people. She is profiting hugely from her lies. In the "suffering loved one" example above, if the second person had charged the first person twenty dollars to tell them the comforting lie, would that make you look at it differently? What if they charged the first person seven hundred and fifty dollars to tell them comforting lies over the phone for twenty minutes?

Lastly, not all of Browne's lies are comforting ones, but are in fact, hurtful. The lies she tells to those who come to her for help with a missing or murdered loved one. The lies she tells to those who come to her for medical advice. These are lies which give false hope, lies which take away real and true hope.

To me, Browne could have comforted a million people, and it would not excuse nor justify these lies.

Analysis

The email is yet another example of how tragedy can lead someone to a vulnerable and desperate place in their life where they turn to someone like Sylvia Browne for help.

Conclusion

My thanks to the correspondent for sharing her story with me, and for allowing me to share it with you.

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